Sunday, January 31, 2010

Pictures!

I wish I had a good excuse for taking TWO WEEKS to get this link up, but I really have none. I could blame it on the rigors or motherhood or the lack or sleep, but in truth I've just been thoroughly enjoying my time off from work with my son, and not worrying too much about things I should do.

In any case, check out this link for Bruce's first (professional) pictures. 

http://elephantjuicedesigns.com/

Once you enter the site, go to client viewing, and then of course to Bruce Olen.  :)  Laura does an awesome job with her pictures - we were so glad she was available!

I know I should be posting more pictures of Bruce myself and I should be doing a better job of writing about what we have been up to lately.  But I still have two weeks left of maternity leave, and for that time, I'm giving myself permission to do whatever I want.  :)  Maybe I will feel more responsible when I head back to work.  Maybe.
P.S.  Okay, I won't completely hold out!  We have been SO enjoying Bruce smiling and cooing the past few weeks - so cute!!!  I keep trying to capture his smiles on camera ... this is the best I could get so far ...

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Lessons from Motherhood: The first month



As Bruce turned one month old last week, I starting thinking about how MUCH my life has changed in such a short amount of time.  Here are a few of the things I have learned this past month:

  1. Learn to do every task in spurts.  Instead of being frustrated by the fact that it has taken seven attemps to get the laundry folded, instead I'm learning to be grateful for the fact that the laundry is DONE.
  2. To heck with sleeping through the night ... I'm thankful for the fact that my son has learned simply to sleep AT night.  For the first three weeks of life, every night our little man would be wide awake for any where from 1.5 to 4 hours every night.  I won't lie ... it struck fear into my heart.  How was I ever going to function again if this child wouldn't sleep?  I am now blissfully thankful that during the night Bruce has learned to simply wake up, eat, and go back to sleep.
  3. I have learned that a simple shower and teeth brushing can drastically improve my outlook on life. 
  4. In motherhood, accomplishments are relative. I used to have high standards for my everyday accomplishments - I had a long list of tasks to complete each day.  Now, if at the end of the day my son is well-fed and in clean diapers, and I've managed to find the time to shower and do a few dishes, the day is a success. 
  5. I didn't know that the first time I left my son (even for a short trip to Wal-Mart) would feel like an actual physical severing.
  6. I never knew that the wonderful, sweet smell of my baby's head would so completely fill my heart and soul.
  7. I have learned that in spite of the large quantities of spit-up, the diaper blow-outs, the messy house, fussy days and less-than-restful nights, I wouldn't trade the life I have now for anything - this new life of being Bruce's mommy, which I thank God for every day!